3 Tricks When Talking on the Phone with a Woman You Have Met Online

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You have met an interesting woman online. You two

had a great time chatting online and she decided

to give you her phone number. Now you have to

make her want to see you face to face, and the

phone is your only tool.

The first telephone call is the most important

one. Sure you have her number, but nothing has

been won yet.

1. Before you call you should have prepared a

list of several topics to talk about. Hopefully

your email exchange has provided you with some

information to follow up on. Study her profile to

think of other topics to talk about. Prepare open

ended questions. Start talking about a subject,

and give her a chance to speak as well.

2. DON'T: ask her questions about other guys she'

s seeing, suspiciously interrogate her about how

she spends her time, and angrily reprimand her

for flaking on you. How she spends her time is

her business.

A lot of men sabotage their chances with a woman

by don't giving her enough credit and respect.

You know there's trouble if you're doing all the

talking and her replies are short or non-existent.

If so it either means you haven't hit on the

right topic to talk about, or, more likely, she

simply isn't interested. Also, if she ends the

conversation early or "has to go", leave it up to

her to call you again, if she wants to. Usually,

she won't.

So, when talking to a woman on the phone DON'T

worry about impressing her. Have fun. Enjoy the

conversation. Amuse yourself.

3. At first phone conversation is better to stay

away of complimenting her. I think giving women

compliments can be very powerful. But when you

give a woman compliments within the context of

trying to win her over, you become a wuss.

Usually women are curious why the men they are

talking to online decided to pick them instead of

other thousandths of profiles. Most of them will

ask you about these "reasons" and by doing this

are giving you the opportunity to make her

compliments. So, wait the moment. :)

If the conversation flow easily, effortlessly, if

you find her fairly responsive and you can keep

up the conversation for at least a half hour you

can ask her out. Her answer seam to be: "YES".